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What Type Of Relationship Do You Have?
SelectSmart.comThis selector will tell you what kind of relationship you have or will have. Psychologist Robert Sternberg said that in the context of interpersonal relationships, "the three components of love, according to the triangular theory, are an intimacy component, a passion component, and a decision/commitment component."


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1. Are you attracted to this person physically?

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2. Are you attracted to this person's mannerisms, movements, their voice, smell or other factors?
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3. Are you sexually aroused by this person?
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4. Do you have a romantic attraction for this person that includes obsessive thoughts and fantasies?
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5. Do you have an attraction for this person that is enhanced by the person's adornments, clothing, perfume or style?
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6. Do you trust this person?
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7. Have you made a mutual decision to remain with each other for at least the short term?
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8. Have you made long term plans that you both are committed to achieving?
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9. In this relationship is a there a demonstration of caring?
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10. In this relationship is there a sharing of personal feelings?
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11. In this relationship is there an expectation of emotional support or encouragement?
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12. In this relationship is there an expectation of understanding?
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13. To the best of your knowledge would the other person in this relationship respond with the same or similar answers as you just did?
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14. Is this person oblivious or unaware of your feelings or even of your existence?
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